When you break up with someone or let them go, it hurts, especially if you’ve been with them for a long time. Whether or not the relationship was unhealthy, it’s hard to let go of someone you cared about.
As a friend, it makes you sad to see people you care about hurting their hearts.
Even though you might want your friend to move on quickly and maybe find someone better, you can’t speed things up.
When your friends’ hearts are broken, there are some things you shouldn’t say to them. Here are some:
So many men are out there
Even though you might want your friend to move on quickly and maybe find someone better, you can’t speed things up. If you tell her there are lots of fish in the sea, you are saying that her ex-boyfriend is not important enough. Even though you might not like him, he must have been important to her.
There are some girls who are better at getting laid.
It’s rude to think that your guy friend is only interested in sex. A relationship is made up of many things, and sex may or may not be one of them. Let them handle the breakup however they want. All you can do is try to make them feel better.
Don’t bother him with your tears.
Everyone grieves in their own way. Give your friend as much time as she needs and let her cry as much as she wants. Crying over a lost love is not a waste of tears. Remember that your friend is at her weakest right now, and she needs to know that she can always come to you if she needs to cry, vent, or wallow.
You are a man
Many people have become sad because of that clause. He was in love, so let him cry until he feels better. Even though they are men, they can still feel and have emotional outbursts. Help him get better by staying with him. Don’t make fun of how he feels.